Originally Posted by
March1234 
However, if she continues, my goal is to help her make it successfully, and that's why I'm here.
Welcome March. I believe googling "harm reduction alcohol" or "controlled drinking" may help you find the answers you're looking for. We don't talk much about moderation here on Sober Recovery because most, if not all of us, are focused on complete abstinence. Of course, everyone is welcome here, and I hope you stick around, but you probably won't find many discussion here that will help you.
You could also google "Stanton Peele". He writes about addiction and has been supportive of harm reduction in some of his writings; although, his work is primarily concerned with abstinence. However, he does believe that some problem drinkers can regain control of their drinking.