Originally Posted by
Marcher13 
Jeff this guy knows about your accident I take it? This would be the reason he's coming, to see how you are going? This is actually a perfect opportunity for you to lay all your cards on the table.
I think you pretty much nailed it. Lay it out there. If he doesn't like it, just because I won't drink with him, he can always fly home. On the other hand, it might open his eyes that we can enjoy each others company without booze involved. In fact, I think he needs that.