So far, all she's doing is complaining about rehab. She doesn't seem to have grasped the seriousness of her crime. I think giving her rehab would be great if she showed the slightest intent of using it to get better. But all she's doing is complaining. Don't send her to a swanky expensive rehab. Spend your money on counseling for yourself to find out how to stop enabling her and how to take good care of your own needs. Leave her where she is and let her do her chores. Addiction is addiction, no matter who has it. She's no different from or better than the jobless heroin addicts.