Originally Posted by
dandylion 
For the above reasons, I plead with you to use every spare minte that you have while she is still in rehab to read everything in the "classic Readings" that are on the fron page of this section. (the Stickies).
Also, the "classic" book on co-dependency---titled:
"Co-dependent No More" is the basic starting point for most, around here.
Yes, yes, yes!!!
I had this same thought myself. You've been given a golden opportunity to focus on yourself while she's away. Please use this time wisely. Certainly you would agree that no harm could come from you following some (or all!) of Dandylion's suggestions. We here really do want what's best for you.