I think you need to let her know all this. Having a connection with our sponsors is important. I like my sponsor and we have a great connection and I think it is important when you work the steps. My sponsor keeps telling me that WHENEVER I feel like I want to stop working with her and try with someone else to let her know. She said she likes working with me but that she wants me to stay clean/sober no matter what. And if, to do so, I need a new sponsor she is ok with it.
Maybe you could talk to other people at meetings..see the way they work the steps..perhaps you will find a woman you really connect with
