I may be in the minority. That was probably how her fifth step was done. The purpose of the steps is to have a spiritual awakening .I think sometimes a sponsors job description gets lengthier than it should be. A sponsors job is to take you through the steps. I wouldn't switch just because you guys didn't form a connection. You can form good friendships with anyone in the rooms. That's part of the beauty of AA is their is a wide array of people to draw ESH from. Use them all, not just a sponsor. I would switch if I were in a situation where the sponsor didn't have what I wanted in their own life or hadn't worked the steps. Does she seem happy, free, and work the program outside of the rooms?