Well I hope this isn't cheesy to say - but google well known dyslexics. Its astouding the accomplishments anyone can make.
My husband is also dyslexic. He has owned and operated many businesses in his life. He also has learning disorder that affects the way he comprehends things. new things must be repeated and he does best with auditory as well as visual learning at the same time. He is creative as hell in his methods to deal with the dyslexia. His biggest issue seems to be with directions IMO. He has lived here 5 years and still gets turned around. Recently we started something that has worked - no more navigator - he prints off a map and follows it rather than rely on what's her name lady on the screen to tell him to "turn right". I firmly believe we all have come to rely on technology so much that we no longer learn things. it seems to be working for RAH.
You are an incredible Mum! Your kids are so blessed to have you.