Honestly I came back because of the grown children ( two are his and one is mine) he is 10 years older and the oldest child has three children who call me grandma, when I left I wasn't allowed to see them. The kids kept telling me how much he loved me and that he has changed. He did for awhile but, it is back to the same old thing again. I know stupid reason for coming back, I really wish now I had stayed away