You're doing great iGirl, that's a lot to digest in a short time!!((((Hugs))))
Interestingly, my ED which had been under control for so very long went completely out of control in reaction to RAH's addiction/recovery/etc. He had been a secret drinker & when he admitted everything & started his recovery my body went crazy gaining weight that has been impossible to lose. I've gotten more emotional about my eating & more out of control all around since then.
It's been my biggest hurdle over this last year because I'm ready to really focus on it after 2 yrs of dealing with ACoA & AH issues. Recently I've been seeking resources to help me understand it better & find long-term solutions that will work for me.