Hi.
I needed to get off my way of thinking which included too much of poor me, poor me pour me a drink.
I finally got off my a$$ and put my thinking into something else, like work, many meetings, helping others and more of a positive thinking pattern like “this too shall end.”
My getting sober and staying sober is a time involved process and involves steady work with no I WANNAS. I NEEDED TO WANT TO BE SOBER more than I wanted to drink to be successful.
The softer easier methods seldom work if we are alcoholic.
BE WELL