can you see the divorce process like an elephant and just take one bite at a time?? sometimes i have to make bargains with myself....ok, i'm not cleaning the house, but i CAN get ONE load of laundry IN to the washer - and turned on. it may be a day before i am back TO the washer, but that's ok.
dealing with monumental life changing stuff IS taxing. and tiring. but it is important not to lose momentum completely.