I like your idea of giving your therapist another chance – maybe you even want to bring up what’s been bothering you?
The way I understand it, therapeutic settings are supposed to be “safe spaces” where experiences and thoughts can be shared without judgement.
So maybe sharing your observations with the therapist will either help you to encounter a relationship where your feelings are acknowledged and treated with respect, or the therapist might try to defend herself by judging and minimizing your feelings in which case you can chose if you want to continue working with her. Either way, this sounds like a great opportunity for growth and development