Hi All,
Well thanks for the Wake-Up calls !! And much heeded advice. And yes, I am looking at my co-dependency issues.
I needed the honest feedback.
I just sent my sister an email with her son copied. Unfortunately his email was returned to me. I did use a lot of I messages. Did not focus on her issues. Suggested they investigate housing alternatives, other than living with me, because I just can't deal with another person in my small home.
It was all about me. My health, how I don't deal well with stress and how it affects my health. And that I needed to take care of myself only and not end up getting seriously ill again.
And said it is up to them to figure out what to do.
She got right back to me via text and said
"Read your email, I understand"
I then sent a text to her son asking for his current email, which he sent to me.
I forwarded the message to him.
It's done.
Do I feel better? Yes!
Does this forum rock? You Bet!!
Thanks everyone.
Edited to add: Her son sent me a text saying:
"It's ok. Take care of yourself first."
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ This is my Higher Power in Action. Absolute Proof ! Thanks to all.