(hug) of course everyone is depressed as it should be! Until this situation is dealt with in a healthy way it will get worse. Do you or your husband attend AlAnon? I know it is hard especially when you love someone. I love my bf so much and being pregnant with all these hormones flying around inside of me I feel so alone. It won't be easy but someone has to break this sad cycle. I wish my ex bf parents would break it and set him free once and for all. It has been hell for me to stay away trust me but I have to continue to for my baby as well as myself unless he gets some serious help but to get that he has to admit to the problem first and he has not, not that I know of because he doesen't even communicate with me at all. Trust your heart and your gut feeling and take a deep breath and do what you know has to be done! and than give it to your HP. Much love !