Hey Debbie, like I said before I think you did a good thing telling your dealer that. It is hard to to. It is tough to tell using buddies that you are done, and it sounds like at least they are being supportive. Don't worry about what one person says to you, I know its hard not to be ultra sensetive at this stage in the game. I thought maria was a bit harsh too and I was going to respond, but I just let it go. I'm sure she means well, some people talk a little too "tough" sometimes. Anyway, keep doing what you are doing, it sounds like you have a good plan. Take care