James..I understand about dealing with work stress by drinking. I was a bartender and we would be so slammed some nights that my whole 8 hour shift would go by where I didn't stop to even breath for even a second. And got hit on, grabbed and called every name in the book. It was a ritual after nights like that for us all to party after we kicked everyone out and locked up..I had to put my notice in when I got serious about my sobriety and had my last day a few days ago..I don't know if you have the luxury of quitting but if you do I highly suggest doing just that and looking for a new job..you shouldn't have to put up with that