Hey everyone...thanks for the replies. My partner does drink but only 1 or 2 here or there. She is a "normal" drinker. She knew something was up and straight away asked if I did mind if she was havingn a drink. I said no...because I know she is not a every night drinker and this would have been a one off. However the offer was there which to me is a sign of support. I think if she was to get raging drunk infront of me then there would be a problem. I have started to worry now though...summer is approaching and it's all beer gardens etc. I know I should think about today only but can't help worrying. 😫