Hi Nowiama,
I know how you feel. sometimes I am fine however at least once a day the 'piney', I miss him feelings get really strong.
I don't know.
It's weird.
It is getting better. However it bugs me too. Logically there is no reason for me to feel this way EVER or any logical reason to pine for him. And I don't really want him back.
I just miss the good times of us, and the dream of the future we had planned together.
Other than that he is not even the same man to me.
I think we have to crowd out the pining with really good stuff. However allow the sad feelings to come up through us and pass away also.