He is going to live with his parents...about 15 minutes away from my daughter & i's house. June 8 th he will get off a plane and im sure i wont sleep the week before. the letters ive recieved completely overlook any and everything i've said and the part that pisses me off is that more than once, they've said "NO you cannot leave. you're married, you said til death do we part. you will not leave me." i hate that is making demands - even though they mean nothing, and they're written on paper. it just rubs me the wrong way and makes me feel like i have a long road ahead...