He's been inpatient for more than 2 months. The phone is gone, thank god...
however, his counselor did reach out to me as he was just wanted to know where i stood and said that my ex is holding out a lot of hope that i didnt mean what i said in the letter i sent and that being clean will resolve it.
i told him, in more words...but, "no way."
his counselor said he has a lot of denial to breakthrough and will try to work on it before he is released. a restraining order is NOT a bad idea if we are still in the same boat when it comes time for him to come back. i am terrified, really.