It's a tough place to be in. I'm in the same boat right now. Hubby says he only drank once but not sure what to believe. He was only sober for 6 mos before this recent slip up. I chose to take my daughter and I'm pregnant and leave for the night. Last time I left for 3 wks. I came home and had a real heart to heart with him sober of course. There's no point talking to a drunk. U have to put ur kids above anything else. He said he was so hurt I left and I told him that I will protect my daughter and unborn child above all else. I don't want her around it and anytime it happens I will do the same and remove her from the situation.