Hi Beccybean,
that reply is so helpful. It helps me understand where he's at. He won't allow himself to feel anger, sadness, sexual love, fear or joy. When the feelings start to come into him, his body starts to shake and then he quickly stuffs them down. I watch this happen.
I could speak to him about how he has treated his women but I don't sense he is ready to talk about this or hear a woman's point of view. He has no sisters. I wonder how long I'll have to wait until he is ready to hear what I want to say? I am patiently waiting until I sense the time is right and still I am waiting.