Thanks, Blue. Your recap of PIUS is particularly relevant for me. A couple of weeks ago there was something sensitive I wanted to discuss with my husband, and I was wracking my brain to remember what the "S" stood for. Luckily just applying the PIU parts were enough to break down any defensiveness and get us to a comfortable place where we could discuss it. I can't even remember what the issue was now, but at the time I remember thinking hey, that really worked.
