((Lovingmom))
My son is 30 with 5 DUI's, some jail time and now on a monitor for another 6 months give or take. He has called me for money, he has called me collect only to scream at me while I accepted the charges and he has also charmed me. We have had long talks while he was in recovery and when he was not and he has blessed me with a grandchild whom he has nothing to do with but I adore and co-parent with his maternal grandmother.
He didn't call on Mother's Day for the first time ever and I haven't heard from him since. I haven't laid eyes on him since before he went to jail so that must be...oh he has been out 6 months and he was in 9 so do the math....and he is living within 10 miles. He called here drunk and let slip that he has used me as a reason to leave the house (monitor) and yet he has made no attempt to stop by.
Don't know why I said all that but I suppose it is because even I have limits. I may have reached them.
I wish you peace...just peace,
Hugs,
JT