Originally Posted by
secretary 
Totally get that. I just can't deal with the husband any more and I have totally withdrawn from him, not speaking, just kind of cohabitating in the same house. We haven't slept in the same room for years (he has sleep apnea), we don't eat or watch TV together. And lately I see how negative he is to me, no matter what I say to him, so I slowly started to withdraw, and the funny thing is, I don't feel so sad anymore!! How weird is that?
this is how I feel at times, it's sad when you get to this point, it's almost a no return junction in life. My husband has sleep apnea and drinks, i have spent many years nudging him at night to get him to breath. I couldn't do it anymore. I'm not his monitor/cpap.