I know that I am a "good" mom...I was never great..but I did the best I could.
I think most mom's would describe themselves in the exact same way. We're human, we're not perfect. We each do the best we can. Some days we do better than others.
The addict in my life is my now ex-boyfriend. I was hell-bent on rescuing him from his troubles, so I can imagine the drive to rescue and protect a child runs even deeper. It's instinctual for a mother to protect their young, so it's almost unnatural for a parent to turn away their hurting child. Living with my AB was very painful and watching him struggle and destroy himself was unbearable. I can't imagine how painful it would be to watch your child destroy themselves.
Sending prayers and hugs your way and to all the moms out there who struggle to do what's best for their addicted children.