I have a dilemma. I have a girl friend who has alcohol addictions. I care about her wellbeing, and have confided to her many times about personal issues including a special fellow who I was interested in last year. Now this special fellow wants to marry me this summer and I feel that I feel owe it to my girlfriend to invite her as she encouraged me to act on this relationship with this fellow. As much as I like to invite her out of compassion there has been many times where we have had intense conversations where I felt uncomfortable. There is a lot of drama in her life which I don't like. I don't see her often and we are more like telephone friends. How do I tell her in a comfortable way that I don't want any drama at my wedding by excluding her. Our lifestyles are so different too.
