Hey again,you say -as My struggle right now is I improve even further in My marriage He is going to be mentioned-thats just a fact of life.
Well of course everyone,s different.This for myself is not true,nor is it a fact of life,that my hub ever be mentioned in my issues,about my marriage,my anything really.All had to do with me.My thoughts,----my reactions.It all had to do with what i was telling myself about another.My own dialoge,to myself was what was causing my issues.My sponsor once asked me,when i would mention another,if we could send all the folks that you think are involved with your hurting,{or whatever youre feeling,that causes you issues}to theorphy,do you think that "You" would then get better?When she first asked me this i laughed,and thought hey thats not a bad idea!!!!But when i got honest i realized that i needed to focus only on myself,and how to change.To each their own.
keep on,keeping on.
Last edited by Cap3; 05-26-2005 at 05:28 AM.
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