Originally Posted by
doggonecarl 
Then be willing to do whatever it takes to support that decision. Can you do that? Start by leveraging SR: read and post daily. Read enough posts and you should be able to glean all the information you need about furthering your recovery.
Right, to me relapse means you need to do *something* different the next time, since repeating the same pattern almost never achieves a different outcome.
What do you think sparked your relapse, and what do you think you could change this time so it's less likely to happen?