Not quite sure how this works but read lots of messages online about being with or leaving relationships that have become destructive and damaging. I have been living with an alcoholic for 6 years. He relapsed again at the weekend and I have had to leave as he is violent and aggresive. I read many people said that you should have no contact. I left yesterday, my clothes are piled up in my car>
I had some issues with my children ( they are all grown up) at the weekend and my partner blames me for his relapse. As much as a I know it was already on it way, I feel guilty and destroyed by his behaviour. So that is why I am on here...in hope that maybe someone understands.
Misty