Hi TDG, I haven't been around this site as long as others, but there are some VERY well thought out and logical comments in this thread. It sounds as some people feel that maybe they have been betrayed a little in the past and yet have even done some of the legwork for you. I think that's pretty darn good for an internet forum. Anyway, I do recall reading that you were really dancing with the devil regarding your future awhile back. It sounded like you were at defcon 5 with your family, the courts, your physical and mental health, you name it. I sincerely hope you are able to get what it is you need figured out. It would be a shame for such an intelligent person like yourself to end up incarcerated for a lengthy period of time. All I can say is I wish you best, I could not even come close to offering the quality of advice others have provided you in this thread.