Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
Anyone who LIKES causing someone pain (when his/her partner doesn't like it that way--I'm not talking about consensual BDSM) is a potential rapist. Think about it--he takes what he wants the way he likes it--not to mention that he seems to enjoy doing it even if you've expressed the fact that you don't like it.
I'm not saying he IS a rapist, but let's just say there are too many red flags to ignore.
Now that you say this... I remember that when he said we weren't compatible he added that he really never wanted to have sex with me.
He might not be it but he is indeed abusive.
I dunno if this was to insult me or to make me feel bad but I just tought he was an idiot.