Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
You've done nothing to be ashamed of. This guy sounds like a creep. AND he "likes it rough"--code for he's a potential rapist. Not necessarily, but potentially.
I suggest you let this one go and find a really NICE guy who respects you for who/what you are. You are unlikely to get that from this guy. And it doesn't matter whether he's an alcoholic or a drinker or stone cold sober. He's not a respectful guy. You can do a LOT better and you deserve it.
Not sure about the rapist thing. It was more about he liked to get a little violent, I guess?
Like I said, I never had sex with him but when we kissed he would pull my hair or bite my lips, arms, face, legs, like really hard, he would also scratch me, and sometimes it would hurt. I got mad at him for this too, it wasn't my style, but what I disliked the most was that he was hurting me and he didn't do that before....
Thanks for your words LexieCat.