Wow. Thank y'all!! As far as my answer when my friends offer a drink, I'll say I'll grab one later or I'm driving. My friends aren't big drink pushers. I really did most of mine at night after I put the girls down. But their bedtimes got increasingly earlier as I was looking for my toddy. I would go to these social things then finish the night off at home with a few (or more) night caps. My husband would be drinking a few glasses of water to rehydrate and I would be sneaking shots of tequila. Insanity. What's crazy is that through both my pregnancies I had no cravings. That's what makes me feel crazy bc I know I can do it. Why don't I?