I agree Turtle82 that she may understand more than I give her credit for, and also I think keeping her bike awhile is a good idea too. I told my sister we may not get to go to Chuck e Cheese and her son was so upset. I feel like I am punishing other kids for her behavior. It is not fair. Also, she has been through a lot for her age, and counseling could benefit her greatly. I start counseling on the 6th maybe I will just set up an appt. to take her when I go. I worry they will try to say she needs medicine, which I do not believe she does, but I can always turn that down, and stick with just the therapy. Thank you everyone for your input.