Originally Posted by
Pouncer I wish he knew how unattractive it makes him. It is like being intimate with a teenager. I prefer a man - a grown-up.
With my AH, I have to pick my battles and believe me, there are many. His kinky porn emails/links are just one of many things that makes him so unattractive. (Actually his physical appearance one would consider him attractive. Don't judge a book by it's cover. Right!)
Yes, i would prefer a mature grown-up man. (is the grass really greener on the other side???)
But, right now this is what I have and i have come to a realization, love it or leave it, and right now it's leaning towards the later.
time will tell, not to worried about it, i think I have accepted the reality of my shituation=****** situation