Thanks everyone. And yes, I now carry a video camera with me. It has already come in handy. When I came to the house the first time she had been sitting in her car in the driveway for hours waiting for me. Once I pulled in she called the police. She told her attorney that I was banging on her window mi have video of me barely tapping on the window. She had changed the alarm code on the house and would not tell me the new code or get out of the car to turn it off. It was all such a show. She is a very sick person. I really believe that she believes all of the nonsense that she has made up. I think for her to look at herself and see what kind of mother and wife she became is too much for her to deal with. She has to blame others for her faults. She is incapable of accepting any blame for herself. Very sad.