Originally Posted by
Needabreak 
Maybe not the first time, but if someone gets involved repeatedly with addicts, it's really about them, not the addict.
Until you look at what draws you to these types of men, you will keep repeating the same patterns and find yourself in the same situations.
Maybe. But I dated a few guys before I met the surgeon, and I highly doubt they had addiction issues. And before my marriage, I didn't have a history of getting involved with addicts...
So, no, I don't think two makes a pattern.
And I think the world of divorced 40-year-old men isn't necessarily so appealing...
You people are tough. No wonder I don't hang out here that much any more.