Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
in the years you two spent together, you both steadily got worse. sometimes people are just plain ole TOXIC together...and time and distance are essential for survival.
Dear AnvilheadII, you are absolutely on point.
I literally will not survive if I get back to where things were - with him actively using and me actively enabling.
Thank you so much for your reply. All of it. "This is true, this is true, well I guess I should have seen this, DAMNIT this is true."
Hugs -