Originally Posted by
CarmenLove 
Take care of you, and remember YOU are still young and YOU can still have a life ahead of you if you would like to.
He can too but that's up to him.
Hugs.
Thank you CarmenLove!
I really need to take to heart that I have a choice.
And take to heart these words "that's up to him." - can't tell you how many times I've said and done things as if it were up to me to make his life better....