If I ate her cake and later learned she
used alcohol in it and didn't for warn
me about it, then the trust I would have
had in her would be broken.
Trust is just as important as it is
to be honest with ones self in recovery.
Exactly that!
It s not about the amount or whether or not it is even significant or noticeable, it is about trust and also respect.
People in recovery have different take on hidden alcohol content, example is that some people are comfortable using mouthwash with alcohol in it, others not. Some still cook with alcohol, others don't.