I suppose his mom and I have been supporting one another since he and I were friends for so long. She has tried to remind me that this is a a blessing for me, which I know, but the lack of reason astounds me.
She even said that unless he ever returns to his "right" mind none of us may ever have any of the answers we are seeking.
I sure wish I could numb my pain, but I just don't have the same desires as he has to seek out substances. Grrrrrrrrr....��