Originally Posted by
calla12 
So please spare me your smiley faces. I understand that you're trying to be helpful but I disagree with your viewpoint. FYI, I was "safe" and even if I wasn't "safe" it's my choice and I can use my body however I want. If I was a man you never would have said that. I came here looking for support, not judgement or criticism.
We have different ideas on what feminism is, but I'm sorry for offending you.
I really would have said that to you if you were a man too, though.
I'm not being judgemental about your morals.
I'm an old guy who made a lot of mistakes and wants to see young people avoid the mistakes I did.
but yeah - I told a few people to go jump in my day too.
it's your life and I genuinely wish you the best.
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