I know this ... But i was thinking i could help. But in the long run i cant, can I? I guess its just a band aid. like a lot of people, i think, if he saw sober life and the things he could do then hed want to change. I just dont think hes ready yet. He like the social party aspect of drinking. Sitting at home cant compete, its not exciting. I dont want to go through this again. My feelings are so mixed up. Sooo mixed up.