I don't know your story but mine was pathetic as all get out. Alcohol basically destroyed my life including losing wife, children not talking to me in well over 5 years and almost killing myself with DT's. I absolutely would not do anything about it until I hit the very bottom.
For me I found AA to be very effective and I surrendered completely to it. I got a sponsor immediately worked the steps and did exactly what he told me to do. To supplement that I spent tons of time here reading posts and trying to help anybody I thought I could help. The question is are you ready to step up to the plate. It's not worth waiting until you lose your daughter. I lost 4 daughters for well over 5 years.
Remember that addictions always get worse they never get better. It's like going down on an elevator. You can get off any floor you like. Why not get off the down elevator before you go too low? Believe me if I did it so can you!