Originally Posted by
Latte 
I am so sorry.
Have you ever gone to an AlAnon/Narcanon meeting?
Hugs, Latte.
I've been to Al-Anon on and off over the years. (Not many NarAnon meetings in my area; there are many more Al-Anon meetings around here.) I used to go more often then felt a disconnect for a while, and just recently came back. It felt different this time, I feel more willing and open, partly because this new bottom hit me so hard.