Denial can be strong until we start the real work and realize we fit more than we think we do. And then some traits are different based on our individual experiences. The one I find amusing is not caring what people think about me. I say I don't, and it's true... until someone passively unfriends me on Facebook or seems to just avoid talking to me. Then I start overanalyzing why it happened, yada yada yada. Get in my face? I couldn't care less. Passively just stop talking to me? Major anxiety.