I will keep you and all those you help in my prayers. *warm huggs*
I dont know if this helps, but if he does find out... What my friend did was tell my X that she was going to call every hour. If I did not pick up the phone and answer and / or she didnt hear the answers from me she wanted... she was going to call the police. He found out about 5 or 6hrs. (he did something to the phone prior to that.. it was odd. I picked up the phone and it said "Please enter your pass code prtoction number" ) before my escape help would arrive.
Your such a blessing.