We've actually been no contact for a number of years now GracieLou.
Since I became broke and homeless, she hasn't really bothered contacting me since.
For the first year or so I pleaded with her to let me know when my son was there so I could visit.
Well, she said she would but she never did, she basically gas lighted on me the whole time around that.
Because she owes me money and doesnt want to repay it. It's been a stream of lies, manipulation and gas lighting.
The message I sent to her yesterday was 'why have you not kept to the agreement you made with me in family mediation'
Which is about the sum of money she owes me, a big mystery. Which was in fact, money I had been putting away years for my kid.
It's the only tangible thing left I can communicate to her if that makes any sense??? She has tortured me psychologically over that alone.
It's not about the money of course. I could care less. That money is basically a symbol of our relationship and her dishonest actions all my life.