Originally Posted by
freetosmile 
not how my codie brain sees it.....
what exactly is a codie brain?
Freetosmile-hope the best for you. I'm sorta in a similar situation, sorta. My AH (still actively drinkly) and I are having some hard knocks lately and he will not apologize for anything, now.
He is usually the first to say sorry, sorry this, sorry that. He is a 'sorry' kind of a guy. I have complained to him over the years about over using the 'sorry' word. He uses that word so freely with everyone around him. 'Sorry' is his magic word, gets him out of trouble. I mean think about it, when a person says sorry to you, you are more inclined to forgive him, right. After awhile the the word sorry made my gut curdle. But now, when He should say it...nothing.
I do not know what he is up to...